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Our Year - 2014



We are now in 2015 and I am looking forward to the year. I have so many plans, so many ideas and so many things I want to achieve this year and I hope that you my readers will share this years journey with me.

Last year had its up and downs but overall it has shaped me into a better person. I have learnt so much about myself, so much more about blogging and I am starting 2015 on a positive. This will be my 3rd year of blogging, however I wanted to look back on my 2nd year of blogging and see all the post's which I wrote. I have featured my favorite 12 below. They feature sad times, happy times and exciting things Maxwell and I got up to.

January
When my beautiful Nan died, it hit me hard but I think it hit certain family members more. I am so proud with how our family have coped this year but most of all I am incredibly proud of my Grandad who has tried to stay strong throughout and my Mum who has been everyone's shoulder to cry on and has more than likely put her emotions last to support us all.
This was one of the hardest post's that I wrote in 2014 however it is one of the post's that makes me smile the most. I love reading this post over and over again because not only does it make me cry but it brings me joy, joy that I got to share 22 years with an amazing women. My Nan will never be forgotten and where ever she is now, she is still with us and will be with us forever.

February
In February I took part in the Mum tag and it is crazy to think this was nearly a year ago. Some things have changed in the last year but being a mum isn't one. I am so proud of Maxwell and I loved looking back on this post to see our thoughts and opinions. I would love to do another up to date Mum tag soon.

March
In March I wrote a post which had lots of thoughts and feelings in. It was a reflection on the past few years and I loved reading this back. This post spoke about me as a young parent, how I was proud of Ben and how we were looking forward to moving into our first real home together. Everything which I wrote in that post still stands and I found many months of happiness. I hope that happiness continues.

April
In April we celebrated Easter and I found our post about our busy Easter Weekend. I remember what a fab weekend we had and I remember the effort which was made to make Maxwell's Easter magical. I am really looking forward to Easter again this year and I am hoping to make it as magical as the last one for Maxwell.

May
In May I wrote this post which was a post that was close to my heart. I highlighted the problems for working parents and how I felt the system where certain children were handed free preschool places whilst others had to pay was unfair. Since writing this post we have paid for Maxwell to attend preschool. He has come on leaps and bounds because he has attended preschool and if we had not paid for him to go I worry how Maxwell may have developed. Although Maxwell's speech is still not quite there it is improving and he is now getting the help he needs. My thoughts in this post still stands and one day I hope the system changes. I won't pretend finding the money for Maxwell to go to preschool was easy because Ben and I have gone without things so Maxwell can go however it was well worth it and Maxwell has learnt tons of new skills which will benefit him in life because of it.

June
In June I wrote a positive post about celebrating my 2 year blog anniversary. 2 years seems like such a long time to write your thoughts, feelings on a blog but I have loved every second and I can not wait to continue into my 3rd year. Looking back at all these posts today I am so happy that I started my little blog. I have written so many memorable moments about Maxwell's life which I would have maybe forgot if I had not written them down.

July
In July I wrote this post about judgmental parents and it was a post I felt strongly about. At the time it was something which was relevant not only in the media but my day to day life. Luckily my daily life has changed now and I am blessed to have wonderful people surrounding me however it is something which I still see in the media daily. I think it would be lovely to see everyone get along however I am unsure if this will ever happen. The media loves to stir and unfortunately people like to believe everything some people write which is normally inaccurate.

August
In August Maxwell and I created some amazing memories and I blogged about having 31 days of fun, We got up to so many different things however one of our favorite activities was going on the steam train in Eastleigh. We had such an amazing day out and we are looking forward to going again soon. It was one of our best days out in 2014.

September
This was one of my favorite review posts which we wrote in 2014 - When Grandad came to tea! It was such a fun post to write. It was a competition entry, although we did not win the competition, we put a whole load of effort into our entry and we created lots of memories doing so, For anyone wondering about Grandad's whereabouts... Grandad will be back in 2015!

October
It is post's like these which I love to look back on - what we did weekly. There will be plenty more of these post's come 2015 and I can not wait to share them. I loved the fact that this post highlights Maxwell having his first hair cut and at that point in his life he was obsessed with light up toys. Come January 2015 he is not so obsessed and is more into cars, trains and his play kitchen. It is funny how things change.

November
In November I wrote this post about how I wish our lives would change for the better. I am hoping 2015 will allow us to have a better lifestyle. In 2015 I am looking at ways in how I can share money saving ideas with you. I have so many ideas and there is so many things which I do to save money but I normally do not have time to share my ideas with you. I hope this is the year I save money, meet new money saving friends and get to talk about saving money everywhere!

December
In December my favorite post which I wrote was about our Christmas 2014. It was a special one and one which I enjoyed a lot, the only thing I wish I had done more of is taken more photos as I had a lack of them. I loved spending time with my family and I enjoyed taking a back seat from my blog for a few weeks. I can not wait for Christmas 2015, I hope it will be bigger and better than Christmas 2014!

Max Rates..... Playroom Edition


This week I have been sorting the conservatory out. The conservatory doubles up as basically Maxwell's playroom and I have been busy creating a spacious room for him. I will be posting a blog post in the near future about what we I done in there to create him a nice area but for now I will leave you with what we have bought.  Hopefully it will give you some playroom storage idea.

This was the last item we purchased for the conservatory and I was worried it would not be big enough to fit all Maxwell's toys in however I was wrong. The drawers are perfect for Maxwell's smaller toys. I have separated all his toys and each drawer has a type of toy in. Maxwell's favourite drawer is the drawer full of cars.

I purchased these to sit on top of the storage unit. I love wooden furniture so I thought these would match the unit and the toy box well.  I love the bright colours which are used and I believe that it brightens up the room up a little. 

This little table and matching stool was a complete bargain, I managed to pick this up for just £30 and I am extremely happy with it. Instead of using it as a sand table, I use the table as storage for all Maxwell's craft bits. It is a useful storage area and I love the fact the table also includes a blackboard.

I adore this wooden balance scale and I have had my eye on it for a long time. I love the colours which are used and I love that again it is made of wood so matches all the storage which we have recently bought. I think this is a great learning toy for Maxwell and I am looking forward to using it.

This was the first item of furniture we purchased for the conservatory and I have to say I have been very happy with it. Not only does it store all Maxwell's toys, it is the perfect little seat for Maxwell to sit on and read a book. I love how sturdy and well built the toy box is and I am thinking about buying another if Maxwell's toy collection continues to grow. 

What I'm Wearing To BritMums Live 2014

Thanks to Nelson Arnicare on Friday I will be heading off to London and going to BritMums live. I am truly excited to meet old friends but also new friends however I am a little worried. I have very low confidence and since finding out that I was going to Britmums Live 2014 for the second year, I have been worried about what I will be wearing.

Since I had Maxwell, I have lacked confidence. Once a size 6, I am now a size 16 and I really struggle with what I wear daily. I like to follow fashion however being that little bit larger, I find that some items which I would love to wear would not suit my body type. Finding a BritMums outfit has been hard. I hate change however I felt that BritMums was a special occasion and I needed that change. Here are my outfit choices below:


For Day 1 I wanted to be comfy whilst travelling but also that little bit dressier for the evening. Unfortunately this week I managed to rip my toenail off my toe and have had it bandaged for most of the week so sandals are my only shoe option at the moment as any other types of shoe are too tight for my foot. I adore the dress which I have chosen to wear, the design is pretty and I love that I have finally found a maxi dress which has arms. I am very self conscience about my arms so this dress gives me that little bit of confidence as my arms are slightly hidden. The bag I have chosen is large enough to put my bits and pieces in which I will need and is big enough to fit a cardigan in if I get cold.


For Day 2, I wanted to dress down a little. I have chosen a simple top and jeans which I think will be comfy to sit in on the day but also when travelling home. Again I will be wearing sandals due to my toe and I will more than likely have a cardigan in my bag incase it gets cold. I will be using the same bag as day 1 as I see very little point in taking 2 bags.

At the present moment I adore the So Fabulous clothing range and although some of there items can be a little pricey, I find that the quality of the items are amazing and they are fit well with my body shape.

These are my outfit choices and I am looking forward to seeing what everyone else will be wearing. If you are interested in what others are wearing why not head over to the BritMums linky and have a nose? I would also love to see what others are wearing and what people think of my outfit choices.

Fitbit Zip – Review

Over the last few months I have wanted to get fitter. I have wanted to not only get fitter to feel better about myself but also because it is my sisters wedding coming up next year and I am to be bridesmaid. Recently I purchased a treadmill in hope that it would make me that little bit fitter and also in hope that I would lose weight. Along with the treadmill came the trainers as well as an amazing gadget - A Fitbit Zip.


The Fitbit Zip is a very clever little device and it is not your regular pedometer like many may think. The Fitbit Zip is a small gadget which tracks your steps, distance, and calories burned. The Fitbit Zip can tell your computer, smart phone and even your tablet the data which you have recorded on the Fitbit Zip when using it. All you have to do is simply set up a account and this allows you to set goals and view your progress.

At first I was very scared about using the Fitbit Zip due to the fact it is quite small. I was quite aware that the Fitbit Zip was there when I was running on the treadmill and my main worry was that it may fall out of my trouser pocket and I would not notice, however after a few times of running on my treadmill I soon forgot it was there and my worry was quashed. 

After using the Fitbit Zip I was able to see easily how many steps I had taken, the distance I had walked and calories I had burned however I felt like I wanted to see it on a larger screen so after a few times of using the Fitbit Zipp I logged on to the Fitbit Zip's app to see my progress and I was able to see that I was not doing as well as I should have been doing. I felt I was not taking enough steps and I was not burning enough calories so I instantly decided to set myself a bigger goal.


From setting myself a bigger goal  I decided that I would go on the treadmill twice a day instead of just the once. Over the last week I have been more motivated to use the treadmill and I have increased the amount of time I spend on it. This is mainly due to the fact I now have the Fitbit Zip. I am the type of person that loves to meet targets and if I do not I feel motivated to do more. 

The battery on the Fitbit Zip is not rechargeable and simply uses a watch type battery. This means that you do not have to recharge the battery daily which can be time consuming. The battery should last 6 months and after looking on the internet I have found that the battery is not actually that expensive to replace if it is to die.


Eventually I would love to start running outside and the Fitbit Zip will be perfect for this use also thanks to it being waterproof, sweat proof and even splash proof. The Fitbit Zip can not only go in your pocket but it can also clip on to a belt as well. 

Overall I was extremely impressed with the Fitbit Zip. I love the fact that it is not just a average pedometer and that it has so many features. I really like the fact that I can see stats on the Fitbit Zip itself but I can also log onto my computer and see how well I am doing. The Fitbit Zip comes in a range of colours and can be purchased via QVC for just £46.50.


Our Favourite Fathers Day Gift Ideas



Goldiva Chocolates - If your Dad has a sweet tooth this Fathers Day why not buy him some Godiva chocolates? They are sure to be a hit. The Godiva Truffle Assortment comes in a pretty box. You are able to choose boxes with 12 chocolates up to 24 chocolates in. With a selection of flavours included in each box, there is something for every taste to enjoy. Each chocolate is made with a lot of care and each chocolate is different to another in the box. The chocolates are beautifully made and taste amazing. The price reflects on this as a box of 12 truffles could end up costing you £15.50 however a box will not break your budget.


Now TV Box - If your Dad loves to be entertained why not purchase him a Now TV Box? The Now TV box allows busy Dads to catch up on their favourite shows thanks to BBC Iplayer, 4oD and Demand 5. If your Dad is an app lover there is also a feature which allows him to be able to easily use Facebook and Spotify through his Now TV Box. For the extra wow factor you are able to pay £4.99 each month for your Dad to watch entertaining TV shows. You could also pay £8.99 a month to watch Sky Movies or £9.99 per day to watch all 6 sky sports channels. Whatever your Dad enjoys watching, their is something for every dad to enjoy with the Now TV Box. The Now TV Box can be bought for just £9.99.


Last Vegas Blu Ray - If you have a fun loving Dad who loves films than the Last Vegas movie may be the perfect present for your Dad this Fathers Day. With big actors such as Michael Douglas, Robert De Niro and Morgan Freeman acting this hilarious must see comedy may create a few smiles.With a simple storyline to follow, there are many moments you may be found laughing loudly. The storyline is about a man called Billy, who is a 4 man group's sworn bachelor. Billy finally proposes to his girlfriend and the 4 men group decide to head to Las Vegas. However, upon arriving, the four quickly realize that the decades have transformed Sin City and tested their friendship in ways they never imagined. You are able to buy Last Vegas on DVD for just £10.


Wasgij Original 21 Football Fever Puzzle - If your Dad loves to get creative and loves to problem solve than a Wasgij puzzle would be the perfect gift for him this Fathers Day. At just £8.99 you are able to pick up your Dad a good quality puzzle which has 2x1000 pieces. The Wasgij Original 21 Football Fever Jigsaw Puzzles include a free wall chart which may also get your Dad into the World Cup spirit. The puzzle would take your Dad hours/days to complete however once completed he will feel a sense of achievement. With the sizes of the puzzles getting larger and larger you would need to make sure your Dad has enough space to complete the puzzle. The Wasgij Original 21 Football Fever Jigsaw Puzzle with Free Football Wall Chart (2 x 1000 Pieces) can be purchased from Amazon for just £8.99.


Wilkinson Sword Hydro 5 Razor - Every Dad needs some me time and a perfect gift idea for Fathers Day would be a Wilkinson Sword Hydro 5 Razor. This Razor is perfect for those who do need to reach a harder to get area when shaving. If you have sensitive skin, fear not as the razor also features skin conditioner which provides soothing moisture while your Dad has a shave. The Hydro 5 also allows you to change the blades which in time could save your Dad Money. The Hydro 5 Razor can be purchased for just £6.99 on Amazon. You can also buy the refill blades for £8.49 which includes 4 blades.


Worx QBit Multi-Bit Cordless Screwdriver Review

As many of my readers know, we recently moved. Whilst moving Ben and I decided to buy quite a few bits and bobs for our home which were flat packed. We spent hours sat down, reading instructions and then slowly screwing pieces of our flat packed furniture together. If I am honest it took us hours and in the end we became quite frustrated with the amount of time we were spending building things. Ben and I now have more flat packed furniture to put up which we have been putting off, however just in time for Father's day we have received a Worx QBit Multi-Bit Cordless Screwdriver which will help us build our flat packed furniture quickly.

The Worx QBit Multi-Bit Cordless Screwdriver is a lovely gadget which comes all in one. The Worx QBit Multi-Bit Cordless Screwdriver comes with 6 popular bits inside its replaceable cartridge and can be filled with any bit according to your task. Instead of hunting around the house for screwdriver heads, the Worx QBit Multi-Bit Cordless Screwdriver allows you to save time as all the bits are there ready to use.


The Worx QBit Multi-Bit Cordless Screwdriver is pocket sized which means it is perfect to not only use in your own home but also to take elsewhere. I was a tiny bit disappointed to see that the screwdriver did not have its own case and instead came in a cardboard case. Without it being in a case I am a tiny bit worried that the Screwdriver may get damaged in transport or when not in use however not having a case does not affect the screwdrivers use.

A Li-Ion battery makes The Worx QBit Multi-Bit Cordless Screwdriver always ready to use whenever you need it. If the screwdriver has been laid in storage for months, the screwdriver should still work when you go to use it. When you do find yourself needing to charge the screwdriver you will only have to wait 3-5 hours until it is fully charged which is fantastic in my eyes. The Screwdriver itself is lightweight and includes 1 speed setting.


A few of my favourite features which the screwdriver includes are the brilliant built in LED. The LED allows me to use the screwdriver in dark spots. This feature is extremely handy. Another one of my favourite features is the fact that the screwdriver has a reverse function. If a screw is wrongly screwed in, it would take a matter of seconds to get the screw out thanks to this easy to use feature.

The Worx QBit Multi-Bit Cordless Screwdriver come with a 3 year warranty. You are able to purchase The Worx QBit Multi-Bit Cordless Screwdriver from Argos this Fathers Day.

I did not receive any financial reward for writing this review.
However we did receive the product for review purposes. Everything written in this post is my own, honest opinion.

Max Rates..... June 2014



Max adores Peppa Pig and would enjoy listening to her fun phrases, he already says some of her phrases so perhaps she could even teach him some more. He loves wearing welly boots and loves to jump in the mud and would love to jump along with Peppa. This would be the perfect toy for him to play with. 

For a while now I have been contemplating whether to buy Maxwell a water table, Max adores playing with water so I figured this would be perfect for him to enjoy in the summer. Maxwell also loves pirates, I think this would be the perfect garden toy for Maxwell to have fun with.

Max really enjoys building things and has a huge love for pirates, so I thought this would be perfect for Maxwell to enjoy. The bigger bits of lego will hopefully help Maxwell be a professional Lego builder when he is a little older.

Maxwell adores watching Peppa so I thought it would be lovely for him to get him the Peppa Pig box set. This would allow Maxwell to watch Peppa in the lounge at home instead of having to use my phone and running the battery down on it.

Maxwell has started to really love monsters so this would be perfect for him to use. I love the idea of the divided plate and I am curious to see if the plate would encourage Maxwell to eat more food.

Maxwell loves colouring and Disney Cars so I thought this would be a nice touch for his room. It will allow Maxwell to get creative and at the same time it will match his  Disney Car themed room.

Max recently played with some skittles round his Great Grandads house and he loved them so I thought it would be a brilliant idea to get some for our house. I found these Bigjigs Pirate skittles and thought they would be a lovely addition to Maxwells toy collection.

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Introducing Mummy To The Max's Fathers Day Gift Feature 2014

In just 16 Days we will be celebrating Fathers Day. To celebrate, we wanted to bring you a fab Fathers Day feature. We hope that you enjoy our feature and are inspired by some of our posts. We hope to bring to you some food ideas, some money saving ideas and some great gift ideas.

Your Sports ID Review

To kick off our feature I wanted to share a fab gift idea which I know Ben would be delighted to receive this Fathers Day. Just in time to celebrate the World Cup, I bring to you the amazing idea of Your Sports ID. Your Sports ID has been created for football fans and players alike. Your Sports ID ensure that they provide high quality, great value footballs and official club merchandise to their customers. With over 26 footballs and a number of other football items to choose from there's something for every football fan on Your Sports ID's site to choose from.

Ben is a massive Manchester United fan, he has managed to watch home games, go and see testimonials and even manages to go for tours up in Manchester. Ben adores Manchester United and the perfect gift for him to receive this Fathers Day would be something related to Manchester United. As soon as Yours Sports ID got in touch with me to ask would I like to review one of their products, I knew exactly what Ben would like to receive as a gift - a Manchester United Football.


Upon browsing Yours Sports ID website I found that I was able to choose from 2 Manchester United balls. I was able to choose a plain logo themed one or one which had logos and signatures on. I decided to choose the plain logo themed one as I thought Ben would enjoy the style of it more and he would be drawn to the personalisation more.

Once I had chosen the ball I was able to choose to have the Ball personalised. I instantly knew what I was going to have. I decided to go for Bens surname as well as his favourite number, 10. I was able to input these details easily on to the website and I was also able to choose what colour I would like the writing on the ball as well as font and size. The process was extremely easy and the website was simple to use. Once I had checked out, I waited for the ball to arrive. It arrived in good time and was packaged well.

Yours Sports ID do not charge any extra for the personalisation of the ball which I thought was brilliant. The ball was reasonably priced at  £8.95 and shipping cost just £3.50. Priced at just £12.45 I believe this is a great gift for any footy loving Dads this fathers day.  The gift idea is unique and simple however it will not break your bank balance and you know you will receive a good, quality item.


I did not receive any financial reward for writing this review.
However we did receive the product for review purposes. Everything written in this post is my own, honest opinion.

Max Rates..... May 2014 Holiday Edition


In a few weeks we are going on holiday so this months Max Rates is based on what Max will be wearing on holiday. I have taken lots of different clothes from different places, this hopefully shows my readers you can buy bits and pieces for children on a budget.

Mothercare First Walker Crab Jelly Shoe
I bought these for Maxwell as I thought not only would they be good for Maxwell around the pool or to play in but also they would be great in the garden this summer for Maxwell when he is getting in and out of his paddling pool and playing in the garden.

Denim Chinos
Chinos tend to be a little less thicker than jeans. Max doesn't really like wearing shorts so whilst the weather isn't sweltering hot, I thought these would be perfect. 

Swimming Towel Poncho
I thought this poncho would be perfect for Maxwell whilst he is away. He is able to take it to the beach or the pool and even use it when he is getting a bath. I love the colour and the price is fab.

Dino Swim Wear Set
This swimwear set is perfect for Maxwell to use on holiday. Whilst playing on the beach it will protect and cover him from the sun but whilst in the swimming pool it will keep him a little warmer than just wearing swim shorts. I love the cute dino picture.

Ahoy Pjs
These colourful PJs look perfect for our holiday. If it is a little cooler at night I will know Maxwell is warm in them however if it is a little hotter at night I can easily pull Maxwells trouser legs and sleeves up.

Stripe T-Shirt
This little T-shirt is a bargain at just £4. It is suitable for day to day use and is colourful and fun. It would look great with a pair of jeans/chinos and a nice jumper when it is cool at night.

Zip Through Sweater
The sweater is lovely. Featuring a hood and a bright little logo, this would be the perfect touch to Maxwell's outfits. It would keep him warm in the cooler weather and he would look very smart in it. Priced at £35 it seems to be a little luxury however I always find hoodies/jumpers last Maxwell a while so I would be happy to pay a higher price for it.  

Mothers Day 2014 Feature

It is just 13 days until Mothers Day.
To celebrate this years Mothers Day I am hosting some fun competitions, posting gift ideas and doing fun posts that tie in with Mothers Day.  I hope you will join me for our fun feature.
Why not also pop over to Saving To The Max to see some fab money saving ideas.

Join Me In The Great British Budget Challange



This February I'm taking part in a campaign to help people take charge of their money.  The campaign is called The Great British Budget and the aim of it is simple, it wants to help you save money. I have always been keen on saving money and have always tried to deliver my readers on here money saving tips and special deals. When I was asked to take part in this campaign I knew it was right up my street.

The challenge for February is to set yourself a budgeting goal, no matter how little or how large it is it must be relevant to you. It could mean you are wanting to save up for a holiday, manage your bills better or cut money on your weekly food shop.

I have decided to carry on with my goal which is make Christmas 2014 free. Christmas 2014 free would take a lot of stress off mine and Ben's finances as we are looking to move in a few months time and we will face a large rent increase which means we will have to cut back on things. 


The Great British Budget is something which could really motivate you to achieve your money saving goal and they are looking for people like you (my readers) to sign up. By signing up to the Great British Budget challenge you’ll be sent emails to keep you on track, money saving tips and you can even join in with a daily Twitter photo challenge which could see you win £50 in high street vouchers.

I really hope some of my readers join me and try and achieve there goal. If you need a little motivation, any help or guidance you can also tweet me with any questions you may have or just to say hi. 

Forever Friends Calendar and Organiser Review

Gifts For Getting Organised

Forever Friends has launched a range of brand new gifts this winter in time for Christmas. The range is full of products which are suitable for all ages. Maxwell and I were sent a his and hers calendar, a family A3 month to view organiser and a week to view family organiser. Being a fan of Forever Friends since I was little I was really happy to receive these gifts.


A4 Forever Friends Week-to-View Family Organiser 2014 -  This organiser is a large A3 family organiser. It features the cute and cuddly Forever Friends bears. This organiser includes tear off memo pad, perfect for all those little notes that you need to write down and a wipe-clean board and pen. Each month includes a picture of 3 bears celebrating a certain occasion and there is also space which allows you to write notes. This organiser is priced at £10.99 which I think is reasonable seeing as it is quite large and has 2 different features included on it. You can purchase it here.


A3 Forever Friends Month-to-View Organiser 2014 - Brighten your day with this handy organiser featuring cute and cuddly images of the Forever Friends bears.This organises shows a week-to-view with five columns. The organiser is a good size and there is enough writing space for you to write your day to day events. There is space to include any notes you may wish to write. This organiser is priced at £7.99. You can purchase it here.


Forever Friends His & Hers Slim Calendar 2014 - This calendar is a handy his & hers calendar featuring the cute and cuddly Forever Friends bears. Each month contains 2 columns - one's 'his' and one's 'hers'! It includes various pictures of a "his" bear and a "her" bear celebrating special events through the year. The calendar is a perfect stocking filler for a loved one or a special couple this Christmas. Priced at just £5.99 I think it is great value for money. You can purchase it here.


I did not receive any financial reward for writing this review.
However we did receive the product for review purposes. Everything written in this post is my own, honest opinion.